If You’ve Ever Said Any of These Six Things, You Might be a Racist

by John Shore on March 20, 2008 · 49 comments

“Why don’t blacks just get over it already, and quit being so sensitive? Nobody who’s alive today had anything to do with slavery. When are African-Americans going to stop living in the past, and start taking care of the present?”

“If making it as a black person in America is so hard, how do you explain people like Colin Powell, Clarence Thomas, and Barack Obama?”

“All kinds of foreigners, of every color, come to this country and make it. Why do so many blacks fail, when so many Asians succeed?”

“God forbid we should ever do or say anything that’s not ‘politically correct.’”

“When I look at a person, I don’t see the color of their skin: I just see a person. Why do we have to be so hung up on color all the time?”

“What about reverse discrimination against white people?”

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A.D. King April 6, 2011 at 11:57 pm

John, I’ve been a dedicated reader of your blog for over a year now. I saw that you linked to this post from your blog on the movie “Hop.” Upon further reflection, I’d be remiss if I didn’t attempt to explain to you, in good faith, how misguided I believe several of the statements included in this list are—and why.

I’ll forego any preliminary comments and just jump right in.

“Why don’t blacks just get over it already, and quit being so sensitive? Nobody who’s alive today had anything to do with slavery. When are African-Americans going to stop living in the past, and start taking care of the present?”

You wrap several sentences with different meanings into one convoluted statement here. The first sentence is crass and coarse. The third is hardly reasonable, but considering the diatribes and blatant racism of “leaders” such as Al Sharpton—who care for racial justice up until the point that white individuals are falsely accused of a race-related crime, such as the Duke hockey players accused in 2004 of raping a black stripper—perhaps it sounds slightly more so. The second sentence is where my main concern lies: how is this claim untrue? And if it is true, are we going to take a “sins-of-the-fathers” approach to every issue in which someone has been wronged? I’m part Irish, and it’s been almost a century since Britain annexed my native country’s northeastern corner. I don’t hold British citizens today accountable for this, or act as if this still tangibly disenfranchises me—although it affects my understanding of my history, it impacts me much less than it did my ancestors when it happened.

“If making it as a black person in America is so hard, how do you explain people like Colin Powell, Clarence Thomas, and Barack Obama?”

Again, this is a confluence of a valid idea with a crude and brutish phraseology. This question can be stated in a snarky way, which is the manner in which I assume you are caricaturizing it. However, without any specific tone, it is also a legitimate question: if a black man can be President but blacks at large still experience tangible discrimination, then what does this say about the racial complexities of America’s sociology? It injures both the privileged and the disenfranchised to relegate racism to such a black-and-white, monolithic sensibility, one that implies that even asking such a question can earn you the label of “racist.”

“All kinds of foreigners, of every color, come to this country and make it. Why do so many blacks fail, when so many Asians succeed?”

I’m not quite sure how this statement can be perceived as much more than stupidly overgeneralized, rather than racist. If you mean to imply that Asians have not endured the same level of difficulty in attaining racial autonomy as blacks, several miles’ worth of documents and testimony regarding the treatment of Chinese immigrants to California in the Gold Rush era beg to differ. Regardless, such a debate over whose suffering is greater is pointless, and is not what either of us is trying to pursue, I hope. But the underlying observation of this question—that there exists a discrepancy between the achievements of generalized racial groups—has been a concern on the sociological level for quite some time now. It seems counterproductive and primitive to deem a layperson racist for asking it.

“God forbid we should ever do or say anything that’s not ‘politically correct.’”

There is quite a huge space between what is not politically correct and what is simply crude, or an ethnic slur. The latter exist in reference to historically created contexts, i.e., the n-word derives its weight from being used in the past as a direct apparatus of hate and murder. The politically correct, however, differs greatly from so clearly a distasteful lineage. Unlike ethnic slurs, which directly demean, some words become politically correct simply on the basis of their patent inoffensiveness—their inability to divide. But in a society where we cannot or do not say what we mean, where we cannot separate a thing from what it is not, communication is futile. I remember once hearing journalist Charles Wiley give a lecture in which he outlined the concept of political correctness as the foremost danger to journalism in the modern age. He recalled the genesis of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s, and the atmosphere of political correctness that he believes prevented him and other well-meaning journalists from publishing information about the ailment that could have saved potentially millions of lives. The inability to speak frankly and without euphemisms about issues as pressing as race relations seems a mortal wound to any hope for improvement.

“When I look at a person, I don’t see the color of their skin: I just see a person. Why do we have to be so hung up on color all the time?”

Is such a sentiment not the ultimate goal of all proponents of equality?

“What about reverse discrimination against white people?”

What about it? This question at face value takes on no inherent meaning, good or bad. The only context in which I can even remotely find reason for you to object to it is if you have somehow managed to assign ulterior meanings to it—such as “white privilege,” or another equally ill-defined term. But these ulterior meanings are your projections onto the asker of the question, and as such are not representative enough of the speaker to warrant your judgment of him or her. Also, consider that from 1995-2002, the FBI concluded that whites were the second most targeted group for hate crimes in New York City: http://www.allacademic.com/meta/p_mla_apa_research_citation/1/2/6/3/7/p126377_index.html

What bothers me most, though—more than any singular statement you have designated as racist—is the fact that a majority of your characterizations of racist thought or speech are questions. This indicates to me that, on a fundamental level, you are unwilling to even have a conversation with those who do not share your views before judging them; the mere presence of heretical thought brands an individual as an opponent. I cannot imagine an indictment more contradictory to the type of dialogue you encourage in your posts about the social issues Christianity faces today.

You offer judgment without demonstrating how and why these questions are patently racist—only that our hypersensitive and made-to-feel guilty consciences have been trained to feel, intrinsically, as if these things truly are racist when we hear them. This is a reliance on emotional and intuitional response, not intellectual. The consequences of shaming even the most ignorant questions is a chilling effect, and I don’t think that’s what you want.

And yes, there is a difference between ignorance (harmful actions without the intent to harm behind them) and racism (something I’d define as an active antagonism against a particular ethnic group). Although they may look the same, one is not the other. To conflate them both is to do damage to the conversation about racism at large, and to make enemies out of people with the potential for goodwill.

It is also to do damage to the past, which in turn damages the present and future. The reason I take issue with the word “racist” being thrown around so wantonly is because I believe our society quickly dilutes the potential of the word to represent true evil. Someone who asks one of the above questions is not “racist;” the Ku Klux Klan is racist. I similarly object to calling people Nazis for the same reason: the unfathomably concentrated horror and evil of the Holocaust, of the extermination of Jews, disabled, and other parties, merits a term that represents one thing and one thing only. Every time “Nazi” or “racist” is used outside of its most horrific and concrete context, the words are deprived of their power—and of their potential to teach us, to be meaningful.

I have great respect for you and your “judge not, lest you yourself be judged” approach to some of Christianity’s conundrums. And yet this post just seems to miss that mark entirely. Therefore, I’d appreciate your response. In fact, I invite it. I’m not interested in ad hominem attacks, but real discussion.

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A.D. King April 7, 2011 at 12:00 am

Correction: the Duke lacrosse case occurred in 2006, not 2004.

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Mindy April 6, 2011 at 1:00 pm

I would very much like people to understand the difference between race and culture. Many do not. Many assume that cultural traits are inherent by race, which, of course, is not true.

I would also very much like people to understand that the systemic racism that has plagued blacks in the US as long as they’ve been here grew directly out of slavery and out of the fact that the vast majority of black people here are descendants of those who were forced here against their will. They have no history of a great migration or pilgrimage across the sea. A culture that grows out of being stolen from your homeland and becoming property is vastly different from a culture grown from voluntarily emigrating to a better life. Being forbidden to read or learn or own anything or vote or appear freely in public or freely associate creates a culture that makes up for all of that in different ways. Staying connected, storytelling, gathering, celebrating, mourning – all the human activities that create community and culture – had to take place in secret, in creative ways that kept slaves from being flogged or worse and families from being separated. Women were regularly raped, and their men were helpless to stop it. What do you think grows in a culture like that?

Now racists blatantly discriminate against Hispanics by assuming that anyone with a Latino name is here illegally and probably part of a drug cartel. They are not given credit for coming here to create better lives for their families or for doing the low-wage jobs that none of the rest of us will do – even though many who ARE here legally are doing just that.

None of my family owned slaves. So what? We also grew up immersed in white privilege without every having to think about it, and as such, have no concept what what it might be like to have people make assumptions about us due to the shape of our faces.

My daughters have assumptions made about them all the time, simply because they are Asian. They are assumed to be intelligent, because people aren’t smart enough to understand the difference between race and culture. Most Asian cultures value education above all else, and THAT is why Asians are successful in school. My girls aren’t growing up in an Asian household, so whether they succeed in school or not will not be because of their Asian-ness. They are assumed to have accents or not speak English or be bilingual – none of which is true. They are assumed to be “exotic,” sought after by some men, even though they are as American as any other person raised in this country.

The thing about racism is that we ALL stereotype and make assumptions based on how people look – race, clothing styles, weight, etc. We do that because we are human, and our brains seek understanding through patterns and sorting. Stereotyping is a normal, natural behavior, part of how we make sense of the world around us. And stereotypes happen because they contain truth.

Racism is what happens when we mishandle stereotypes. When we take a stereotype and remove our own empathy filter, racism rears up and takes over.

Here’s a basic example: When I see, on the news every night, that the vast majority of arrests made in my city are of black males, a stereotype forms. “Black males are committing crimes at the highest rate of any ethnicity.” This true fact, in my city, leads to the stereotype that black men are more likely to commit crimes than white men. Which may or may not be true – IF ALL ELSE WAS EQUAL. Because all else, in the city, is most definitely not equal.

Now, I can either seek to understand what is behind this inequity – poverty, discrimination, poor education, drugs, lack of parenting skills in poor communities, etc. – and help look for solutions for those problems, OR I can close my mind to anything deeper than the obvious, and become a racist. Label all black men as potential criminals, blame their criminal behavior on the color of their skin alone. Because it sure is easier that way – I can recognize those darned criminals from blocks away, steer clear of where they live and hang out, and not worry myself with trying to find solutions because they are hopeless, you know. They’re black, so why bother?

OR I can acknowledge that while the statistic may be true, the problem is cultural, not racial, and until the systemic problems and institutions that maintain the poverty and the poor educational options and the lack of parenting skills are dealt with, it isn’t going to change. AND that if whites were living in the same circumstances or were plagued with the same history, we’d be just as likely have those same statistics plaguing our own reputations.

Thoughts are just thoughts. I can’t help, living in the city, the fear that creeps up my neck if a large group of black teen males comes around the corner when I’m walking my dog. What I CAN help is how I handle that fear. I take hold of it and forbid it from showing. I don’t cross to the other side of the street. I smile, I make eye contact, I say hello. I show them the respect I hope they’ll show me, and so far, they always have. Because they are just kids out walking after school, not gangs out to attack the first middle-aged white woman they see.

We can make assumptions, but we can also use our senses of tact and restraint and empathy and remind ourselves not to judge any individual by standards we ascribe to a group. And we can try to understand which cultural differences need to be overcome by all of us (like uneven poverty), and which should be appreciated as part of the wonderful diversity this country holds dear.

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Christian Beyer March 20, 2009 at 2:47 am

Why does it have to be a BLACK scarf? Huh Ric? I just hate tokenism.

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Christian Beyer March 20, 2009 at 2:45 am

futhermucker

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John Shore March 17, 2009 at 10:42 pm

See, the thing is, you didn’t read the TITLE of the piece, see.

Sigh.

Maybe I should take up knitting, or gardening …

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Julie March 17, 2009 at 10:25 pm

fucker

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ric booth March 17, 2009 at 8:15 pm

(chuckling) I could use a scarf for next winter. Black.

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harvey melton January 19, 2009 at 5:59 am

color will not hurt anyone it is the character wraped up inside that color that will determine how the real person is. if someone does me wrong, depending on the wrong that was done then i treat them accordingly.there is ultimate forgiveness in Jesus, but limited forgiveness in us.thats just the way we are.

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John Shore January 13, 2009 at 7:47 am

Chris: You forgot to read the TITLE of the post.

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Chris January 13, 2009 at 5:17 am

What a douchbag. It’s sad that I even have to tell you what’s wrong with your list. You are the worst kind of racist: someone who doesn’t think he’s a racist.

5. We should never forget about our slave-holding past and how wrong it was for our ancestors to practice such a terrible thing. It obviously makes you uncomfortable to be reminded. Get over it.

4. Even during the era of slavery there were successful black people. Eveyone knows about Frederick Douglass. It’s just ignorant to say that a few successful people show that everyone else is doing fine. You would have liked Saddam’s Iraq.

3. Good question. Maybe it’s because there is still a great deal of institutional racism against blacks. Ever think of that, genius?

2. God forbid you should ever reflect on your half-baked, unoriginal thoughts.

1. What a liar you are. You are OBVIOULSY hung up on race. Especially hung up on blacks. You need to get over yourself.

Bonus: Yeah, there’s discrimination against white people. You think that that would make you more sympathetic. But, no, you’re a douchebag.

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Mindy April 6, 2011 at 12:08 pm

Chris???? Try again. Read the title. John thinks anyone who has said ANY of those things is, in fact, racist. Even though many will never admit it.

Now, let’s assume, for the sake of argument, that you were correct and John did, in fact, think all those things are true. While I would wholeheartedly agree with you that this would make him a racist, I have to question your approach. If you really were trying to change his mind, trying to educate him, how is calling him ‘douchebag’ and ‘sarcastic genius’ and ‘half-baked and unoriginal’ any way to get him to listen???

Just because you thought for a minute there that he was writing like a douchebag (and I’d agree, if you weren’t wrong), name-calling has never really been a call to listen.

When I want to change someone’s thinking, the first thing I do is look for common ground, THEN proceed to tell him nicely (at least at first) how wrong he is. I mean, to each his own, as far as style goes, but I’m thinking all you’d have accomplished is the raising of someone’s defenses, which is a pretty direct way to shut down anything resembling listening.

And, of course, since you were wrong and attacked for no reason at all, you actually are the one who ended up sounding like the douchebag.

Not that I’d ever call you that, of course.

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John Shore January 13, 2009 at 2:42 am

Nah, Chris and I aren't fighting. We agree! He just didn't read the title of the post. If he did, he'd know, of course, that I'm on his side.

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Casey January 13, 2009 at 2:39 am

wow john, sounds like you and chris really got off on the wrong foot.

I think racism is still very much alive today- and getting pretty good at camoflage. I agree with reverse racism, and with most of the top 5. I think to a certian point a lot of america finds themselves thinking something rascist at some point. I think its more important on how we act on those thoughts, or if we continue those thoughts.

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John Shore June 9, 2008 at 5:41 am

Rae: No, they're not. They're living in Phoenix.

(JOKE!)

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Rae June 8, 2008 at 9:09 am

I don't get upset over slavery but I do get uspet over whites who treat me with discrimination just because I am Black. God help those who thinks there is a "Whites Only" heaven some where….They are living in LaLa Land.

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John Shore March 25, 2008 at 5:58 am

Hjordes: Excellent. Thank you.

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Hjordes March 25, 2008 at 4:37 am

Stef asks, "Are there any truly non racist people…?

Yes, Stef. You bet. Dictionary definition of racism:

". a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others."

"hatred or intolerance of another race or other races."

I know more people who do NOT subscribe to either above definition than I know that do. Yes there is widespread racism, worldwide, in all cultures. Being in a mixed family, I've experienced some nasty forms of it. Every incident hits hard, gutwise. Because of that one can suspect that racism lurks behind the nicest smiles. But that's a false trap that can alienate you from humanity; it simple isn't true.

Saying that you don't "believe" you are a racist is like saying that you "think" you have character. You either are or aren't. You do or you don't. Decide your principles and live by them. It's not hard. And if someone wants to label you something that you are/are not that's their right; it has nothing to do with you, if you know yourself.

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