Just Published: “UNFAIR: Why the ‘Christian’ View of Gays Doesn’t Work”

by John Shore on November 10, 2011 in Christian Issues · 12 comments

Just published!

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This is the book I first wrote about in my post Gay Christians: Tell the World Your Story.

Many LGBT Chritians responded to that post—and here, in UNFAIR, are thirty of those stories, each more heartbreaking and inspiring than the last. Also in the book are seventeen of my own (revised) pieces on homosexuality and Christianity.

The book concludes with a piece, “Taking God at His Word: The Bible and Homosexuality.” In the 24-hours since the book was published, seven people have written me to say this chapter alone is worth the price of the book. (One reader, below, wrote it should come free with every new Bible.)

If you want to help the book succeed, the best thing you can do is leave a good review of it on its Amazon page. Also good is if you review it on your blog or website. If you do, send me the link to that review.

I’ll also be publishing UNFAIR as a print book. Should take about a month.

Here are some reviews thus far in for Wings:

“For most of us, the fact that young gay and lesbian kids growing up in evangelical homes are made to feel small, worthless, unloved and unwanted is just plain depressing. For John Shore (who, it’s clear, has a man-crush on Jesus) it’s a challenge—an opportunity to teach, to preach, to gently mock, and, most importantly, to throw the love of Jesus right back at evangelicals in a big, wet, very gay kiss.” — Randy Roberts Potts

“Amen! A book that gives voice to the thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning people who have been told they must sacrifice their identity to be Christian. John Shore, by providing LGBT Chrstians a platform for sharing their experiences, has created a profound witness: both the expected kind—an opportunity to walk in another’s shoes—and the less-expected kind, the a-ha, light-bulb, revelatory kind, that will open eyes to the simple fact that the God vs. Gay construct is exactly that—human-made, fallible, wrong—and allow us to get about the business of spreading love, teaching justice and acting with compassion.” — Gwen Ashby, Associate Director, Believe Out Loud

“I haven’t read the whole book, because I just purchased it this morning. However, I flipped to the last chapter of Wings, where John and his wife Catherine present the whole case: why Christians are wrong for persecuting gays, and the REASON Paul condemned homosexuality. All of this is backed by scripture, so if you want to say “That’s not what the Bible says,” then you are wrong. the case presented here is so clear, so logical, it’s impossible to argue. Christians like to cherry-pick their scriptures to fit their cause, but this essay makes you think of the Bible as a whole, and does not allow you to do that. Incredible, really. This book is SO WORTH your ten bucks, even if the only chapter you read is the last one. The last chapter is so good I want to give a copy to every church in my town. When you buy The Holy Bible itself, it should be given “free with purchase,” just to get the conversation started.” – comment left on Mr. Shore’s Facebook page by reader Katy Gillette-Glover, 11/10/2011

“I have to say that this is an incredible book. It gives hope to know that people have experienced the same type of struggles and have come out stronger in their faith and have a closer walk with God for it. They begin to listen to God on their own instead of listening to what everyone else is saying that God says. I truly enjoyed the last chapter of the book. (Yes, I bought it and read it all on the same day.) Understanding the texts and meanings of the passages used to beat up the LGBT community allows for an opportunity to share this with others. I do not expect to change anyone but I do hope to be able to give people something to think about — Jamey Hooks, 11/10/2011

“John Shore is one of the leading lights of the Christian blogosphere, and this book really demonstrates why. Interspersed with heartfelt letters of testimony from LGB Christians—spanning the gamut from teenagers to grandparents; gay, lesbian, and bisexual; happily out and those still questing–are a number of John’s typically forthright and funny essays on the subject of Christianity and homosexuality. In this era of turmoil in the church, of bullied kids taking their own lives, and of the fight for gay civil rights, this book is exactly what is needed—for gay Christians looking for support, and for straight Christians questioning the issue. The final essay is, quite simply, one of the clearest, most brilliant, most faithful and biblically sound arguments for Christian affirmation of queer people you will ever read. ” — Anna R. Thorton, 11/11/2011

“John Shore gets right to the heart of this subject, reaffirming to all that God loves them and explains once and for all why the ones who use the Bible to condemn LGBT people are just plain mistaken. The personal essays written by a number of gay and lesbian Christians will touch your heart…unless your heart is missing or hard. This is a must read for any LGBT Christian or any LGBT person who thinks they can’t be both. I’d also recommend this book highly for any Christian trying to figure out what God really says about gays.” — A’isha Melbach, 11/10/2011

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

Lymis November 12, 2011 at 7:35 am

I haven’t had a chance to read the whole book yet, but that end essay is brilliant, and worth the price. I hope it ends up being as significant in this ongoing “debate” as is deserves to be.

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Boarderthom November 12, 2011 at 5:04 am

Sympathetic joy is when we take delight in the happiness of another instead of begrudging it. Can we allow the lives of others to be different from ours and feel happy for them? Yes. Can we rejoice for them as their happiness grows? Yes. I do not believe that happiness is a limited resource, that the more someone else has, the less there is for me. I do not believe that heterosexuals have a monopoly on love and commitment. If Ellen Degeneres is happy in her same-sex marriage then I am happy for her too. I say, “Love the religious bigot, disagree with the religious bigotry”.

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Diana A. November 12, 2011 at 7:03 am

Amen!

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Jamey H. November 10, 2011 at 5:32 pm

Good evening,

I have to say that I finding your website has been wonderful! As a gay man I went through a very long desert in my Christian journey. I have always loved God, but felt that I was a disappointment and could not be loved by God. Being a gay man I just knew that I was horribly broke and could not be fixed. I am now coming out of the desert and I have learned that none of that is true. God loves me just as I am! I have started visiting churches again. I had stopped going a couple of years ago. I also found your website on Facebook. You’re website has been an incredible source of encouragement and inspiration as I continue on this new leg of my Christian journey.

Now all of that being said…lol… I purchased “Wings on a Pig”. I have to say that this is an incredible book. It gives hope to know that people have experienced the same type of struggles and have come out stronger in their faith and have a closer walk with God for it. They begin to listen to God on their own instead of listening to what everyone else is saying that God says. I truly enjoyed the last chapter of the book. (Yes, I bought it and read it all on the same day.) Understanding the texts and meanings of the passages used to beat up the LGBT community allows for an opportunity to share this with others. I do not expect to change anyone but I do hope to be able to give people something to think about.

Jamey H.

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darren November 10, 2011 at 1:10 pm

YAY!! :D

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Jon Trouten November 10, 2011 at 12:56 pm

I’m one of those archaic paper book readers. Too bad there isn’t a print version of this book…

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John Shore November 10, 2011 at 1:27 pm

As I say in the post, I’ll have a paper version ready in a month or so, for those who … prefer their archaic ways over helping to save the planet. But whatever. :-)

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Jon Trouten November 10, 2011 at 1:31 pm

So what you’re saying is that I should read more comprehensively…

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Matt R November 10, 2011 at 12:16 pm

Good luck, John, and thanks for doing your part to combat the wickedness that has gripped most practitioners of our religion. Instead of rote regurgitation of what prophets like Ezekiel said, you are following in his footsteps by calling Jerusalem for its sins. Thank you

P.S I am very straight. But I don’t feel the need to tolerate homosexuality anymore than I feel the need to tolerate people who dye their hair blonde.

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Matt R November 10, 2011 at 12:18 pm

Which, before anyone misreads the subtext, means that my definition of toleration is “letting slide what you think is wrong.” And I see nothing wrong with there being a little more love in the world.

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Diana A. November 10, 2011 at 2:18 pm

Cool!

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Donald Rappe November 10, 2011 at 8:08 pm

I can tolerate wings on a pig as long as no one also puts lipstick on it!

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