Thanksgiving 2012 Healing Prayer Exchange

by John Shore on November 15, 2012 in Christian Spirituality · 283 comments

Some of you might recall how last Easter we did The Burning of the Resentments. As we enter this year’s holiday season I thought that together we might try something similar.

I would like us to pray for each other’s healing. So let’s try this.

If you have something from which you would like to be healed—something that for too long or too severely has physically, spiritually, or emotionally compromised the quality of your life—tell us about it. In the comments section below, share as little or as much as you’d like about whatever it is in your soul, mind or body that you would like healed. Ask people to pray for that healing for you. (And remember that you can do that asking as anonymously as you’d like: When it’s time as you’re commenting to put in your name, just use any name you’d like, and do the same with any email you care to make up. Voila: anonymity.)

There’s one condition to your leaving your prayer request. And that is that you must leave a reply to someone else who has left a prayer request, telling them that you will pray for their healing. And then of course you really have to do that; you can’t just say you will.

You can leave a message that you will pray for as many others as you’re moved to, but you must pick at least one other person to pray for. (Ideally, you would first pick someone whom no one else has yet chosen: I don’t want anyone left without anyone to pray for them. :( ) Again, if you say you’re going to pray for someone’s healing, that’s a serious commitment. So please don’t say it if you’re not going to do it. But with that in mind of course choose to pray for as many as you might.

And of course it’s up to you what does and doesn’t constitute a prayer. But whatever you do, do it like you mean it. Which does of course take a little time, anyway.

And it doesn’t have to be a God-centered, Christian/religion-specific style prayer either, of course. Whatever your version is of sending healing love to someone totally works.

So at least one person will say a prayer for your healing, and you’ll say a prayer for the healing of at least one person.

Then at 9 a.m. PST on Wednesday, Nov. 22—the morning of the day before Thanksgiving Day—I’ll write and publish my group prayer for us all. [Done: it's here.] If you’re free to come to this site at that time and pray with me for all of us, that’d be awesome. It’d be great to know that out there, as I’m being with that prayer as I write it and after I publish it, you are joining me in that experience. (In fact, I’ll start praying over the requests and the writing of my public prayer starting around 8 a.m. that morning; I would especially appreciate your prayers during that time.)

And then each of us, knowing that we have prayed for someone, and that someone has prayed for us, will go thusly fortified into the holiday season.

Thanks ahead of time for those of you who participate in this.

Participating in The Thanksgiving 2012 Healing Prayer Exchange are the good people who run the Facebook page Unfundamentalist Christians, as well as our friends over at The Progressive Christian Alliance. People from both groups are watching, reading, and praying over this all.

Update Tuesday morning: This message just came in from Rev. Roger McClellan, founder of The Progressive Christian Alliance:

In the eyes of the Progressive Christian Alliance John’s vibrant ministry to the marginalized is one that should be affirmed by the Church. It was that position that led us to formally welcome Rev. John Shore as an ordained minister of the PCA. And while John certainly deserves a lot of credit for his willingness to serve this virtual community, you, the readers and commenters here, deserve our deepest gratitude and recognition. For you form this loving and supportive community. So let this Thanksgiving 2012 Healing Prayer Exchange bring balm to the wounded and hurting among us. Let us each pray for one another, both giving and receiving the benefits of such concern.
I pray for you.
You pray for me.
Together we rise.
I could not put it better myself.

[UPDATE: Here's my prayer around/response to everything left here.]


 

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Francis November 21, 2012 at 2:05 pm

I guess you can say I have a broken heart. I was very much in love with someone and I believe he was with me as well; however, due to certain blocks and wounds, he hauled out of the relationship. I would ask of course for there to be another chance, but more importantly, the grace to let go and experience healing so that I can move on.

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Ann November 21, 2012 at 5:42 pm

It is so hard to open our hearts sometimes, yet we know that is the only way we can experience a connection and deep love with another. I pray that no matter the outcome you will find peace and healing. God bless.

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Lissy November 22, 2012 at 10:59 am

I am praying for healing for your broken heart. I am praying that God will do the healing only He can do.

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anon November 21, 2012 at 12:58 pm

older family members are physically falling apart
my wife will retire soon but health problems loom over her golden years
we are blessed with a loving daughter & son-in-law
but another daughter is estranged from us & refuses to let us see her child
i fear the future not for what it will do to me
but what it will do to those i love and care about

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Allie November 21, 2012 at 1:15 pm

God bless and keep you and your family, and bring peace, health, and reconciliation. Praying for you.

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charles November 21, 2012 at 12:31 pm

I would like to ask for prayers for a charity project I am embarking on- if you can lift that up, I would be appreciative….

Francis, I will pray for your situation- I know thats a really tough thing to go through.

C

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Allie November 22, 2012 at 4:24 am

Praying that your charity flourishes.

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Lissy November 22, 2012 at 10:56 am

I am praying for your project and for you!

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Barnmaven November 21, 2012 at 10:57 am

This will be the first Thanksgiving since my brother Ken died. With my husband out of town and my kids spending it with their father this year, I am struggling with terrible loneliness and depression. I will share dinner with my parents and I have invited two friends who have no family to join us, so I won’t be alone the whole time, but I am dreading getting through the nights. I miss my brother so much, we were best friends and he was an amazing uncle to my kids. I guess I’m just feeling sorry for myself, but I could sure use some prayer and so could my parents.

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Jill H November 21, 2012 at 11:42 am

Oh I am sending it to you, Barnmaven. The fact that you are sharing your rather lonely-feeling holiday with people who are too experiencing their own aloneness is such a deep kindness. It doesn’t necessarily fill the voids, but it says you can share even when you feel lack. So generous. You remind me of dear friends that have invited me over the years, not wanting me to be alone either. It means so much.

I pray that your quiet evenings are filled with peace, and your parents are comforted in their grief.

And thank you for your blog. Comfort, thy name is Cat. I get it. :)

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Amy November 20, 2012 at 8:31 pm

My son and daughter in law just lost their baby girl a week ago today, our first grand daughter. The baby was born alive, but lived just a few precious moments. My daughter-in- law really struggles to get pregnant due to multiple female issues, so this pregnancy was such a blessing to us, only to have lost her to God way too soon. They have one fantastic little boy and they are both such great parents. I personally could have accepted the fact that we have one healthy sweet little boy, and we love him so much, but my daughter-in-law is so distraught that she can’t get pregnant and carry children. But now that we were so close to having another child in our midst, we are all so sad by this loss and the unknown that we now face if she will be able to conceive again. I ask for prayers for another pregnancy soon that she will carry to full term. Any child born into this family is surrounded by people who will love him or her unconditionally. Please God. We need a miracle. I can’t stop crying for this lost little girl that we buried just a few days ago.

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francis November 20, 2012 at 8:35 pm

Amy, I am praying for you, your son, and your daughter-in-law.

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Amy November 20, 2012 at 8:37 pm

Awww…thank you! I can feel your love from here.

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Barnmaven November 21, 2012 at 10:53 am

Amy, I will pray for your precious family. I am so sorry for your loss.

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francis November 20, 2012 at 7:46 pm

Please pray for my older sister and me. Several years ago, as power of attorney for our mother who has alzheimer’s, my sister began making decisions concerning our mother’ estate. The decisions and actions she has taken benefit her family and have little regard for mine. I disagreed with her decisions and reminded her that our mother always said she wanted equal treatment and consideration for everyone in the family. My sister and I are now estranged and it is heartbreaking.

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Amy November 20, 2012 at 8:36 pm

I will pray for you Francis. I know how difficult it is to be in the situation that you are as I am the power of attorney for my father. However, I would never even think of taking any of his money for my benefit, so I can absolutely understand your problem from a personal level. I will pray that God gives your sister the guidance she needs to make better decisions for your Mother and her finances. I will also pray for you as you deal with the devastating disease that your Mom has and I’ll also pray for some clarity for your Mom for your next visit with her. Seeing that spark in her eye will warm your soul. Sincerely…God’s blessings to you and your family.

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francis November 20, 2012 at 9:57 pm

Thank you for your prayers, Amy.
Praying that you have a peaceful night.

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Lissy November 22, 2012 at 11:03 am

I am praying for you and your sister, as well as your mother, Francis. Estranged family is particularly painful, I think.

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francis November 22, 2012 at 10:59 pm

Lissy, thank you for you prayers and empathy.

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Rev. Dave November 20, 2012 at 11:37 am

What a beautiful community is developing here. It is awesome to see the love that is spreading and turning strangers into friends! In humility I offer a prayer from The Book of Common Prayer and a scripture that everyone can use during this wonderful & holy experience:

“O Lord our God, accept the fervent prayers of your people; in the multitude of your mercies, look with compassion upon us and all who turn to you for help; for you are gracious, O lover of souls, and to you we give glory, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, now and forever, Amen.”

and this…

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:6,7

Rev. Dave

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William November 20, 2012 at 8:36 am

The past four years have been a blur. Four years ago my daughter revealed to me that she was sexually abused by my brother. We have been struggling with depression, rejection, anger, lingering sadness, and even illnesses (brought on by stress and depression, no doubt). I’d ask for prayers for my wife, my daughter, other family members, and me as we continue to recover emotionally and mentally.

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John Shore November 20, 2012 at 9:58 am

I’ll pray for you and your family, William.

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Roger November 21, 2012 at 6:25 am

My prayers are with you, William. May you all find peace and healing.

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Tom Backus November 20, 2012 at 6:30 am

The prayers I ask for are not for me. In the last month, the company I work for has had to downsize, and many friends have found themselves entering this holiday season without employment. I would ask God to offer them peace and comfort, and help them through, leading them to better times ahead.

Thanks to all!

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Joe November 20, 2012 at 5:16 pm

I will pray for you, Tom.

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Tom Backus November 21, 2012 at 10:10 am

Thank you Joe. It helps lift the heavy burden on my heart!

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Francis November 21, 2012 at 2:03 pm

Tom, I will be praying for you intention. I can really relate from the heart as this happened to me earlier in the year. God bless you and yours!

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ray November 20, 2012 at 4:02 am

I have a genital abnormality, which I believe I have passed on to my sons.

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shebear November 20, 2012 at 5:47 am

Ray, I will pray for you and your sons.

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JanvierNoir November 21, 2012 at 8:45 am

Ray–

I also will pray for you. I pray that any heartache, guilt or fear that you experience would be overcome through a felt love, grace and compassion for you as well as your sons. I pray for courage for all of you to be able to talk about this issue in your family, seek wise and good counsel, and that you would find a shared bonding and acceptance with one another. In addition, I pray that any shame you or they may have would pale in comparison to the truth that you are wonderfully and fearfully made; that when you were created, God said that you were good and a good gift, indeed.

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James November 20, 2012 at 12:36 am

I’d like to ask for prayer for my vision. I have had detached retinas in both eyes. My right eye has lost the ability to see and while my right eye still sees, my eyesight is very poor, and it’s growing worse and will soon become a problem. I would like to ask prayer for the revival and restoration of my eyesight.

I would also like to pray for more discipline in maintaining my health and taking proper care of myself. My body is a temple so I would like to come to a place where I treat it as such.

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ray November 20, 2012 at 4:00 am

I will pray for your eyes

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Lissy November 22, 2012 at 11:05 am

I am praying for your eyes, James. They are such little things with a big job. “I would also like to pray for more discipline in maintaining my health and taking proper care of myself. My body is a temple so I would like to come to a place where I treat it as such.” I will pray for this also, as I am having problems treating my body with the kindness it needs!

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Wendy November 20, 2012 at 12:12 am

I am moved to tears by the love evidenced here.
I’d like prayer for myself to overcome my life-long addiction to food. It has been my life-long struggle. I have managed to control my type 2 diabetes with drugs, but have lost my health insurance, so I don’t see how I can continue to afford it. If my eating and therefore my weight were normal, my blood sugar would stabilize.
I really need a miracle…

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Kerry November 20, 2012 at 4:28 am

Dear God,
Please show Wendy the way – I know there is a way for her – waiting.
Let her feel your Love and feel it filling her more than any food can.
Please let her see how strong she is. Please let her feel your presence and guidance every day.
Amen

Hugs Wendy – you can do it!

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Brenner November 20, 2012 at 8:04 am

Praying for you, Wendy! I just recently found out that I am borderline pre-diabetic, and am facing getting off some weight, too. I’ll be praying that God gives you a new sense of love for your body, that caring for yourself will be sourced in Love.

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Allie November 20, 2012 at 8:52 am

Praying for you, Wendy. For your weight and also for your health situation in general, and your insurance situation.

And if anyone here needs a diet buddy, I would be interested. I have trouble with my weight since becoming ill and need to get back on the wagon.

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KellyK November 21, 2012 at 5:19 am

Wendy, I’ll pray for you.

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