Dear John

Is she a Christian yet?

Dear John, I came across your website a while ago and have been impressed and sometimes moved by the wisdom you show in your responses to people. I wonder if you might offer your opinion to a question I have that has been pressing on my mind.

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Sinfulness, fear, and the toxicity of faux-Christianity

Dear John: I was wondering how you deal with the concept of original sin. I believe it is a corrupting idea that has led to much misery.

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She’s caring for their mother–and they’re angry about it

Got this in: Hello John, I don’t know how I found your page, but I am glad I did. You are the only one who hit it on the money.

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When you’re the rebound guy

Hey John, I recently read your article What Does a Woman Mean When She Says, “I Need Space”?  It really made me want to reach out and contact you, to see what kind of advice of you would give me.

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Dear John: Will she be scared straight?

Yesterday I received from a young woman this letter: Dear John, My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. She is actually the one who pursued me. She’s been my best friend, and we have had our ups and downs, but she says that I have her heart.

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It’s his choice: His mother or his fiancee

Got this in yesterday: Hi John, May I first of all just say how much I appreciate and love your page? For me, it is smothered by the teachings of grace and upholding the real meaning of God’s love, as opposed to this hateful portrayal that so many Christians are putting forward every day.

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