You’re on the right track in prioritizing acting Christ-like instead of telling everyone — again — that we should drop everything and convert to Christianity. Here’s the thing, though: if you’re doing all that Christ-like stuff because it’s part of your strategy to try to convert people, you’re not being Christ-like. If it’s just another lead-up to the next “nudge,” don’t bother. If you grew up Jewish, I wouldn’t have to explain that “She’s a nudge” is about the worst condemnation of a person there is. Don’t be a nudge.

Here’s the thing: there’s a whole lot of us out here who pick from any number of paths that aren’t Christianity because a) we think Christianity is theologically incorrect from first principles and; b) we have found paths to the Divine that we find theologically correct and work for us. You can either respect that or not. If you respect that, the proselytizing ends — no ifs, ands, or buts. If you don’t respect that, then no matter how Christ-like you are hoping your actions are, you’re bearing a false witness.